I was speaking to a client recently who was struggling to understand what was occurring inside of her relationship. She was concerned that their relationship had become one of convenience rather than one of connection that originally inspired their partnership. She decided to address the issue and directly ask her…

I wasn’t looking for love but when I met Chris, his aggressive & confidant pursuit of me caught my attention. I like men who know what they want. Our first date was intellectually stimulating and the two of us took turns being direct in regards to how we operate in…

I laid there, shaking uncontrollably on the ground, the medicine was working. Thousands of miles away from home in the middle of the jungle surrounded by a small group of people I knew no more than strangers, but we were all gathered for the same thing. We were all in…

We’ve all felt it, the death of an intimate relationship, a viewpoint in which you held for someone and what you thought you had together. It’s a pain that shifts from an inexplicable heaviness on your chest the eyes cannot see to the empty voids of a never ending abyss…

I had been texting Lee for days on end, apologizing for my oversite. Apologizing for not realizing how much I meant to him. But how could I have known, he never told me. However, the situation was dire and there was no time for ego, I had inadvertently hurt someone…

Ironically enough, in the digital age of over sharing everything about our lives we avoid authenticity of genuine intimacy. We share what we ate an hour ago, the silly things our kids do, the highlights of our weekend trip and shutter to give voice to any real meaningful conversation that…